The night of Dec. 10, contractions finally started! Jane had been breach that morning (thank goodness for midwives that could and would turn her!) at my appt. where she not only had plenty of fluid to turn around in, but also passed her non-stress test with flying colors. They stripped my membranes for the 2nd time, and I was wondering if she was building a permanent residence, since I'd had a week full of pre-labor symptoms and contractions, more than any previous child, and then they all stopped, and I thought all hope might too! At 10:30, I could tell something was up, but told Brian to go ahead to sleep (knowing my patterns of SLOWness), then went downstairs, when I couldn't sleep myself, and called the midwife @ 11:30 since things had become regular. She said to call back when I was ready for them to come, and when I hung up, I thought, "THAT'S why I thought I was calling!" and debated how much longer to wait, since I was already so uncomfortable! Usually I can pack my bag, finish up projects, rest, etc. while I wait for things to pick up. As it was, I could barely get back up the stairs! Fortunately, she texted me right back, and since that baby had been breach that morning, she was coming over to make sure she was still head down (which I was fairly sure she still was). I was in the tub before the midwives got here, and after what felt like pushing FOREVER!!,--and having to make sure mid-labor that she was indeed head down, while also finding out she was too high to break my water still (while I thought she was about to crown!), she DID arrive--at 2:45 AM. 3 hours of labor is record-breaking for me, but OH was it intense!! Mom was able to see her born, and Maddie, who had awoken, waited until the screaming had stopped, then came and saw her sister brand new :). She even got to cut the cord! Anne and Lucy were half-awake, so when she whispered to them that they had a new sister, they came upstairs to hold her too. It was so cozy being able to snuggle right into bed with her, and to have the family around so quickly. I was glad for the experience of having her at home, although I think in my head, I thought it would somehow make labor more pleasant (no such thing!). She weighed in at 8 lbs 12 oz, 21" long, and absolutely perfect! Jane--a name I have always loved, and that is in both of our family lines, and Brinley in our attempt to pass on Brian's name :). (I thought Briony was a darling one, but the kids all said it sounded like "brine shrimp" which grow here around Antelope Island!)
Mom was a lifesaver, extending her ticket an extra 4 days (& missing Baby Ben's early arrival, Kristen's PhD graduation, & Baby Kate's blessing!) and taking care of EVERYTHING while I slept and snuggled and slept. Even Anne kept saying in amazement how "Grandma really did all of the stuff!"--including way too many rounds of "Cootie Bug", tuning the youth string group I had organized for Sacrament Mtg, and wearing Lucy's prescribed "Ballet Costume" (Lucy was having a meltdown about something else by the time I got the camera ready). We also had tender hearts over Brian's Grandma Duncan passing away 2 days after Jane was born--such a revolving door for our family at the veil lately!! One of the last things she did while conscious was write down Jane's name and birthday to add to her list of posterity. Brian took the 5 older children to the funeral Saturday, and we enjoyed a visit (or 2) from Dad and Kathy. And here are way too many pictures in attempt to capture some of that fleeting wonder of new life--
















Congrats Charlotte and Duncan family. Jane is just a beautiful baby. So glad she is here and all is well. Hope you had the merriest of Christmas'.
ReplyDeleteWow! I can't believe you had her at home! She's so beautiful! Congratulations! I'll have to come visit once the kids are back in school!
ReplyDeleteShe's beautiful! So happy for your family's newest addition.
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